First step towards quitting bad habits……

Letting go of bad habits before they become destructive!
 
You don’t have to go to school to understand that bad habits are harmful to you in one way or the other.  The difference between Muslims and other people when it comes to bad habits is that we have one extra reason to stop our bad habits: Islam. You see in Islam, it’s a sin to intentionally do things that will harm your body. It is also a sin to do things that will harm other people as well as things that will affect you in a negative way. Shouldn’t that be an enough incentive to stop our bad habits? 
 
When a person recognizes his personal shortcomings and bad habits and has the intention to change them, then that person has taken the first step towards making a positive change in his life.The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “Verily forbearance is achieved by putting it into practice.” [al-Tabarânî in al-Awsat and al-Bayhaqî in Shu`ab al-Imân]

This means that a person can change his bad habits and manners into good ones.  This can be achieved by taking the following steps:

1. To ask Allah sincerely and frequently to help you.

2. To remember the bad habits upon doing the bad deed. For example, when you are angry, remember the bad habit of raising your voice, and when eating, remember the prohibition of eating with the left hand, and so forth.

3. Sometimes you may forget your endeavors and lapse into your old bad habits. So do not be despair, but try again. Allah will surely help you.

4. You might wish to speak with others who used to suffer from the same bad habits and benefit from their experiences. They can tell you how they managed to overcome their problems.

5. I advise you to read books and listen to recorded lectures that discuss the problem you are trying to overcome. This often proves helpful. Here is one great book about quittting bad habits :  “The Willpower Instinct

you can find it here: http://www.ebook3000.com/The-Willpower-Instinct_163606.html

Allah says: “O you who believe! Seek help in patience and prayer. Indeed Allah is with those who are patient.” [Sûrah al-Baqarah: 153]

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